Hi Reader,

One of the most common questions I get from parents is some version of:

“How much should my child actually be eating?”

And honestly? It’s a reasonable question. You want some way of knowing if they’re getting the right amount of everything!

But when it comes to feeding kids (and honestly adults too), portion sizes aren’t meant to be rigid rules.

They’re starting points.

And sometimes they’re not even that helpful.

The problem with strict portion rules

Kids’ appetites fluctuate constantly.

One day your child eats like a teenager. The next day they eat two strawberries and declare themselves full.

That’s normal.

Growth, activity levels, sleep, illness, and even emotions can affect appetite. Trying to keep intake perfectly consistent from meal to meal usually leads to frustration for everyone involved.

Instead of focusing on hitting a “correct” portion, it’s much more helpful to think about how to offer food in a way that supports your child’s natural appetite cues.
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A simple way to think about portions

A good rule of thumb when serving kids is what I call starter portions:

Start with a small portion, and let them ask for more.

For example, a starting portion might look like:

• 1–2 tablespoons of a food for toddlers
• about ¼ cup for preschoolers
• ½ cup or more for older kids

But these aren’t limits. They’re just starting points so kids don’t feel overwhelmed by a huge amount of food on their plate.

If they’re still hungry, they can absolutely have more.

And often they will.

What about adults?

Adults actually struggle with portion sizes for the opposite reason.

Many of us learned to ignore our hunger cues and instead rely on external rules:

• “I shouldn’t eat after 7pm.”
• “Carbs should be small.”
• "Protein should be huge.”

But just like kids, adults’ needs vary day to day.

A helpful framework I like is thinking about meals as including:

• a carbohydrate source
• a protein source
• a fat source
• fruits or vegetables

This plate helps visualize proportions of each food in your meal. You don’t have to ALWAYS follow this, but it’s a great guide.

One huge tip: eat slowly and without distractions (besides your kids 😅). Eating fast and in front of a screen makes it so much harder to listen to your body’s fullness cues.

I like to stop eating when I feel almost full so I don’t accidentally overeat and get a stomach ache. I rather need a snack later than feel uncomfortably full.

The big picture

The goal with portion sizes isn’t precision.

It’s helping kids (and ourselves) stay connected to hunger and fullness.

That means:

• Offering regular meals and snacks
• Serving a variety of foods
• Allowing kids to eat more if they’re hungry
• Letting them stop when they’re full

When we step back from strict portion rules, feeding tends to feel a lot more relaxed.

And that’s usually when kids do their best eating.
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Want to Dive Deeper?

This blog provides a deeper look into why kids don't need portion control, with photos of different starter portion sizes for different ages.

Have a toddler? Print out this teddy bear fullness sheet to help them visually understand their hunger and fullness cues.

The Ultimate "Kid" Dinner

But for the Whole Family

Chicken tenders, mac and cheese and broccoli – is there a more classic “kid” dinner that you know they’ll eat time and time again?

Here’s my favorite homemade recipes to make this a meal the whole family will enjoy:

• ​Chicken tenders​
• ​Mac and Cheese​
• ​Broccoli

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I’m ALWAYS working on reducing clutter and these are two items that have become essentials in my home.

The collapsible buckets are so easy to store and simple to expand to use. Just let it dry before collapsing and putting it away!

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Hope your week is off to a great start,

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